MAKING LOVE: WOMAN’S EXPERIENCE

During the slow phase of detumescence, while still savouring the effects of an orgasm, most women feel a strong desire to temain entwined in their partners’ arms, and to lie quietly close to them enjoying non-passionate embraces and caresses. Some even will wish to lie with their partners’ penises still inside them, flaccid though they may be.

There is a theory that a woman’s instinct for sexual pleasure is so deeply ingrained in her nature that she has an overwhelming need to maintain body contact with her partner after orgasm, and thereby extend the period of enchantment for as long as possible.

But if her partner gets up, has a cigarette or simply rolls over and goes to sleep, a women usually feels neglected and bereft, and this kind of turning off without explanation after sexual union usually leaves her feeling lonely. A sudden withdrawal of this kind seems uncaring, if not brutal, to her.

Prolonging a man’s interest A man’s usual physiological response to orgasm is one of drowsiness and lethargy, and this is enhanced if lovemaking is left to times when he is already feeling tired and ready for sleep. Therefore, a change to morning lovemaking may bring about a more affectionate afterplay.

To encourage your man to stay awake, keep conversation light and romantic; tell him how much you love him and how wonderful he is. It is a good idea to avoid discussing household problems, as this is certain to send him off to sleep. Make sure, too, that after having sex it is not you who rushes off immediately to the bathroom to get washed. If you must have a wash, suggest you have a bath together.

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